Be My Yellow

Forget the red fire of passion that burns out into ash. This Valentine, ask for the light that saves you Will you be my yellow? Because you are my safe place, and the greatest  love I have ever known

What if we have been chasing the wrong colour all along? This Valentine’s Day, instead of the usual questions, look at your partner or the woman you love and ask her something deeper: “Will you be my yellow?” We are raised to believe love is a frantic, crimson fire — but the kind of love that actually saves you? It is yellow.

We have all been sold this idea that love must be a grand, cinematic explosion. We hunt it down in the wild scramble for bouquets or that raw thrill when a heart beats for someone new. Red is the colour of fire. It is intense. It is loud. It is those sweeping gestures that are supposed to leave us breathless. But here is the thing — fire eventually burns out. It leaves nothing but ashes. When life gets cold or the world is too loud, a raging fire fails to save us. Passion burns us up — we need a hand out of the dark. We do not need the fire anymore. We need a light.

In the world of colour psychology, yellow is the morning sun. But a ‘Yellow Person’ is a human version of a long, peaceful exhale. They are the ones who make your nervous system go quiet. Whether it is a man or a woman, a Yellow Person is the one who lets us just be. They are the people we call home. So, hand her red roses this year for that first fiery spark, and sunflowers for the steady light that carries you through.

Imagine one person who walks into a room and it feels like the sun finally decided to show up, darling, wrapping us in golden light where no shaky, red adrenaline races the heart in panic, just your steady glow pulling me into our forever love. Instead, you just feel your shoulders finally drop. Your whole chest relaxes.

This is that specific, yellow kind of love Coldplay was singing about — the kind that looks at you and sees something beautiful even in your bones. It is the opposite of exhausting drama or the stress of trying to be perfect, darling. This is that cosy, heavy-blanket feeling on a rainy day. They are the one person you can be completely unpolished with. They’re the one you can be real with. Love your messy hair, bad jokes, and big wins the same. You are my partner. You are the place where I finally stop performing and just breathe.

Whether man or woman, the Yellow Person in your life allows you to simply be yourself. They never demand perfection; they embrace who you truly are. This is the person you call first in moments of win and reach for when the world feels overwhelming at midnight. This Valentine’s Day, forget the bare minimum that fades quickly. Everybody deserves a love that wraps you up safe, just like home. Go with the one who quiets your heart, lets it rest easy.

Real joy lives in rock-solid companionship — your pal turning family, your love bringing peace. Like Coldplay sings it best...: “Look at the stars, look how they shine for you, and everything you do...and they were all yellow.” Love is the gentle promise to forever warm the depths of another’s soul. It is the choice to be the sunshine in a storm. This Valentine, choose to honour the light. In a world full of boys chasing the fire, be a man who provides the warmth. Be a gentleman. And for the women who hold the light, continue being that sun. We know the real ones never just ask to be a Valentine. So this time, turn to that one who makes you feel truly safe — the favourite soul in every chapter of your life and ask: “Will you be my yellow? Because you are my safe place, and the greatest  love I have ever known.” Will you be my yellow? Because you are my safe place, and the greatest  love I have ever known.