Shedding light on a silent truth — one that is quietly making its way into almost every home. It makes its way through in the hustle of modern life, the weight of expectations, responsibilities

Today, I want to shed light on a silent truth — one that is quietly making its way into almost every home. In the hustle of modern life, the weight of expectations, responsibilities, and uncertainty is pressing down on us more than ever. Day by day, this invisible burden grows heavier. For some, the pace of life becomes overwhelming, and they find themselves on the verge of surrender.

This pressure may be due to financial struggles, marital discord, academic stress, social expectations, when a person could not muster up the courage to face the pressure, they bow themselves and their self-confidence and mind goes negative beyond limits and they slip into a self-created doom and then they seem or consider themselves sick — not physically, but emotionally and mentally. And if left unchecked, it leads them to the unstoppable road.

The number of factitious patients is increasing, according to recent studies. Unknowingly, many individuals find themselves trapped in a vicious cycle - endless symptoms, repeated medical tests, adverse effects from medications, and the financial burden that follows. These individuals may appear physically ill, yet they are frequently suffering from a psychological disorder called Factitious Disorder, or more precisely Munchausen Syndrome.

A person with this fake illness, fabricates or exaggerates psychosomatic symptoms. The motivation is not a financial or any other kind of gain but a need for care, attention, empathy, approbation, or emotional support. In order to keep up this impression, people with this disorder frequently go to considerable measures, even if it involves having needless surgeries, treatments, or hospital stays.

Let’s look at the most common forms of factitious patients, as well as the characteristics that define them.

Intentional Fabrication of Symptoms

People with factitious disorder need care, attention, or emotional support from their loved ones so they deliberately create or exaggerate symptoms to become sick.

Medical System Manipulation

These kinds of patients, frequently fabricate case histories, self-inflict illnesses, or different medical reports. In order to escape from detection of their fake illness, they go to several hospitals or doctors. This kind of practice is called ‘hospital hopping.’

Fundamental Emotional Drivers

Self-destructive habits or psychosomatic illnesses often arise from unhealed emotional wounds rooted in childhood

trauma, neglect, or unmet needs. These does not mean that the person is faking their illness, rather their emotional pain is so deep that it manifests physically or behaviourally.  The illness expresses their unspokensuffering and attempts to satisfy unmet emotional needs.

Being part of the healthcare profession, I have encountered numerous such cases — each with unique behaviours, emotional patterns, and psychological needs. Understanding these patients is crucial, not just for effective treatment, but also for showing empathy without enabling the disorder.

All of behaviours shown by the people are occasionally motivated by factors other than a simple desire for care or attention. In some cases, individuals may engage in factitious behaviour as a form of emotional retaliation — a subconscious way to take revenge silently on those, who have tortured them mentally or physically.

They may feel deeply hurt, unacknowledged, or emotionally neglected, and instead of expressing and showing this pain directly, they manifest it through illness.

In other words, they can’t forget as well as forgive, feel trapped by their circumstances, and see no way out of the emotional chaos. For some, fake illness becomes an escape from the relentless demands of life — a way to step out of the rat race and reclaim a sense of control of life in her/his own ways.

To put it other words, for some individuals, adopting a fictitious illness may serve as a form of catharsis — a way to release emotional pain by embodying a false identity.

Here the main driving force behind this behaviour is the desire for attention, sympathy, or other forms of emotional support, rather than a genuine illness. Factitious disorder can manifest in different ways, and it is categorised into two main types, each with its own distinct characteristics:

Consequences of Factitious Disorder:

Unnecessary Medical Procedures: Factitious patients may undergo numerous unnecessary medical procedures, tests, or treatments that can cause harm, unnecessary pain, and complications.

Wasting Medical Resources: These individuals can drain healthcare resources, using valuable time, money, and personnel that could otherwise be allocated to patients who genuinely need medical care.

Emotional Distress: Both the individual and their loved ones may experience significant emotional distress. The person with factitious disorder may struggle with guilt, shame, or confusion about their behaviour, while family members may feel manipulated or powerless.

A Message for a Mindful Generation

Now a days, there is a lot of stress and pressure in life, so factitious disorders are increasing and they harm not only themselves — but also their families and the entire healthcare system.

Faking symptoms can lead to harmful results by creating health hazardous complications for life long, waste human resources, and cause deep emotional distress in family. Let’s keep in mind that seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. In these cases, compassion, awareness, and responsibility can make all the difference.

Everyone’s well-being matters including yours, and those around you. Embrace Compassion, and Show Love and Support.

Let’s delve deep and think that these factitious disorder — and many other mental health challenges — behind this there is a simple truth- that we are all humans, and we all need love, understanding, and support consistently just like as we breath. Emotional well-being is as important as physical health, along with a little compassion.

Consistent care, empathy, patience, to those around us, we can create a safe space for healing. Without judgment - you need someone is basically the lifeline someone needs. Let’s take care of each other, because we all deserve to feel loved and supported every day.

Building a more compassionate and supportive world begins with understanding and empathy. Every person deserves to feel seen, heard, and genuinely cared for.

No one needs to face their struggles alone — love and support can make all the difference.

— The author is the medical writer creating informative and engaging content on healthcare and wellness