Generally speaking, the most miserable people I know are those who are obsessed with themselves; the happiest people I know are those who lose themselves in the service of others. By and large, I have come to see that if we complain about life, it is because we are thinking only of ourselves. In all of living, have much fun and laughter. life is to be enjoyed, not just endured. Stop seeking out the storms and enjoy more fully the sunlight.