Relationships are mysterious. We doubt the positive qualities in others, seldom the negative. You will say to your partner: Do you really love meIJ Are you sure you love meIJ You will ask this a dozen times and drive the person nuts. But you never ask: Are you really mad at meIJ Are you sure you're angryIJ When someone is angry, you don't doubt it for a moment. We should doubt the negative in life, and have faith in the positive.