For me, the times that I dressed provocatively had been empowering. It felt good. It's those times that I felt comfortable in my own skin. like really, really comfortable. And let's face it, body self-esteem issues are a hurdle many women struggle to overcome. So, when a person tears a woman down for how's she's dressed, they are tearing her down at a moment she feels at the top of her game. That's where the real shame is-not in how a woman is dressed, but in the desire to minimise her self-worth and empowerment. That's not kind, or well meaning.
