The world is a unified organism, where no existence has a reality independent of the whole. This Indian Philosophic perception now stands vindicated by even scientific finding, as would statement of Australian Physicist Paul Davies mean: “For a naïve realist, the world is a collection of objects. For, a quantum physicist, it is an inseparable web of vibrating energy patterns, where no individual component has a reality independent of the entirety; included in the entirety is the observer.” In nature’s scheme of things, the world is framed into an interdependent framework where all and sundry have to complement and supplement each other’s efforts to carry on the cycle of life. We, thus, have a shared destiny. It applies both at macro and micro levels. It is on this premise that even the institution of marriage is premised.
The paradox, however, is that all human beings are born unique, each reflecting varying desire trends and mind traits, more often than not in conflict with others, coming as it may as Karmic carryover from the past. That makes the world a natural breeding ground for conflict of thoughts, desires, and interests. What adds fuel to the fire is our individualistic ego, which tempts one to conduct in a demanding mode. Therefore, there remains no scope for having a perfect situation in life. In fact, life is paradoxical — full of contradictions. Amidst all this, we have to learn how to relate with each other, overriding individualistic limitations. What we often forget that if a being has certain fault lines, the positives would be much more. The usual human tendency, however, is that it gets stuck to few infirmities in others. In the process, their positives get ignored. That remains the cause of all human conflicts. What we often forget that before expecting from others to prove true to our perceptions and beliefs, better work upon your own fault lines. Therefore, a lesson in “The Art of Living” is called for to ensure a smooth run of life.
The other day, a lady worried about her marital stability came asking: “Sir, my first marriage proved disastrous. I don’t wish my second marriage to meet the same fate. Please tell me what lies in store of my future? I can’t fall back upon my parents if this relationship goes bad, as I broke off my first marriage against their wishes.” “What makes you apprehensive?” I countered. “Sir, I believe that my present husband is into an out of marriage relationship. I have seen unpalatable exchange of messages in his phone, which makes me think so. I have been true to him and can’t digest if he cheats me.” She answered.
At the outset, let me assure you that astrological pointers clearly state that your marriage is stable. So, don’t carry any sense of fear. Seeing is not necessarily believing. Some fun statements doesn’t necessarily mean that he would be into a physical relationship with another lady. Mars conjunct Mercury in your chart suggests that you have a restive mind and habitually suspicious by nature. You carry the tendency to take things on its face value and react impulsively on instinctive judgment, without applying proper forethought. Your lagna lord Venus placed adverse to Uranus means that in the heat of moment, you may react erratically. Your ego seems quite high, as would fiery Mars placed adverse to expansive Jupiter mean. That limits the scope of your vision, not open to go beyond for a reality check. Also, it makes you live in a demanding mode. It becomes difficult for you to digest anything that doesn’t suit your instinctive judgment.
Your husband may be having lot of weaknesses, as nobody could be ever born a perfect. But his value system seems quite strong, as would Jupiter’s benevolent aspect on the Sun mean. That is enough to marginalise his negatives. The obvious implication is that he will be true to his commitments. His lagna sign indicates that he would be impulsive and aggressive. His Moon sign suggests that he would be tactless and undiplomatic. His lagna lord Mars placed adverse to Neptune implies that he carries some unpleasant memories of early childhood that may keep him unnerved. Given the situation in hand, what is called for is to relate to him with a sense of love. That alone would let him get over his limitations. Remember, life is an expression of the harmony of opposites. We need to learn to live for each other rather than in a demanding mode.
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