

Teachers have held a position of unquestionable respect for generations. Their presence represented moral and intellectual authority, their decisions demanded faith, and their words carried weight. But in today’s educational discourse, an awkward topic predominates: Why are kids treating instructors with such disrespect? We might be asking the wrong question. Rather than focusing only on kids, we need to face a more unsettling truth: Have we systematically undermined the very profession whose authority we now want youngsters to recognise?
Social media, smartphones and evolving parenting practices did not start the decline of teacher authority. It started when the connection of trust in education increasingly gave way to a transaction controlled by institutional appeasement, performance metrics and expectations. Teachers are expected to exercise dwindling authority while exhibiting unending patience in many institutions. Disciplinary rulings are regularly contested, their professional judgements are questioned, and the desire to prevent parental discontent sometimes overshadows valid concerns. What message does this convey to kids? Students start to see professional authority as negotiable when they see adults confronting instructors on a regular basis without engaging in meaningful conversation or receiving institutional backing. Respect becomes contingent on convenience rather than knowledge or accountability. Paradoxically, the same society that expects orderly classrooms is frequently reluctant to give those in charge of upholding them more authority. Attention should be paid to yet another discrepancy. It is becoming more and more expected of teachers to serve as educators, counsellors, administrators, technological facilitators and emotional support providers. Their obligations are growing, yet they still have limited time and freedom to complete them.
In ceremonial speeches, we honour educators as nation-builders, but how often do our institutional procedures reflect this appreciation? Additionally, there is a risky propensity to mistake student empowerment for a lack of accountability. Encouraging children to challenge beliefs is crucial, but letting them cross boundaries is not. Independent thought should be encouraged in a progressive classroom without normalising rudeness. Similarly, fear, humiliation or blind obedience cannot restore respect. Teachers must gain students’ trust by being competent, equitable, compassionate and reliable. Freedom without responsibility turns into indiscipline, and authority without accountability turns into authoritarianism. Hence, a fundamental recalibration of educational interactions is necessary for the solution. While maintaining open channels for resolving legitimate complaints, school administrations must uphold professional decorum.
Parents need to know the difference between standing up for their kids and immediately supporting whatever they do. Teachers must adopt new pedagogies without compromising who they are as professionals. Above all, students need to know that disrespect and disagreement are not the same thing. While one promotes intellectual development, the other threatens the connections that are essential to a meaningful education. A civilisation shows its values by treating teachers with dignity in routine institutional actions rather than by publicly expressing respect for them. Perhaps we should look at the examples adults are providing before bemoaning the decline of respect among students. It is unreasonable for a society to expect its students to respect its authorities when it consistently undermines its instructors. Education loses its moral base, which is considerably more vital than classroom discipline, when the teacher’s voice becomes disposable.
The writer is an educator and a councillor; Views presented are personal.