We all wish to have a smooth run in life. That calls for conducting appropriately in life, besides behaving well with those around, the stage for which is set by our minds. For, mind drives all conducts on our part. What we do in real terms are first visualised and articulated in our minds before being put into action. It needs no elaboration that if ever our minds fail to visualise our initiatives and responses in the right perspective, we will pick up inappropriate leads, and with obvious implications. Naturally, that calls for the mind to be in proper shape so that it could come out with its optimum best, but for which we become due for failures, frustration, pains and sufferings.
Remember, mind has its own chemistry quite in contrast with our physical-self. So far as our physical working is concerned, the more the effort the better would be the result thereof. On the contrary, more relaxed the mind is, more creative and productive it becomes. For, it then spontaneously comes out with its intelligent best. The thought process then remains easy, simple, free from any preconditioning whatsoever, and worth dispassionately pick up the most appropriate leads.
The paradox, however, is that invariably, we all are driven by a complicated thought process; so much so that even simple truths go ignored. As a consequence, we keep moving in circles with no end result in sight, often loading ourselves with unwanted problems. The reason: Our preconditioned mind, coming as it may as a carryover from the past, narrows down our vision. Naturally, what remains outside the precincts of our self-belief world, goes unnoticed. Ostensibly, truth often goes ignored, and with obvious consequences.
It, therefore, becomes incumbent upon us to watch our mind-trends, identify and acknowledge the loose ends, and then fix them through conscious efforts. The irony is that our ego often does not allow us to reach out the inner realm of mind to dispassionately figure out our infirmities. Here, astrology can offer the right lead, for it knows no bias.
let us now see how the complicated thought process of an otherwise well-educated man has been responsible for vitiating his marital life. And, instead of identifying the underlying truths and correcting them, he has been unsuccessfully playing all tricks in his hand to tame his better half. The most interesting part of this man is that he himself has a fair knowledge of astrology. But instead of trying to figure out the real reason behind his problem, he is busy identifying the right time slot that would be suited to tame his partner. let us look at the astrological pointers.
The Sun is placed adverse to the planet of limitation Saturn, Uranus, mind-signifying Moon, emotionally-oriented Venus, and wisdom-indicator Jupiter. The implication is that he has a conditioned mind, stuck to his self-defined whims and fancies. He has a negative mindset that habitually keeps grudging and grumbling and finding fault of others, and would not care for other’s sensibilities and concerns. He has a swaggering ego, not open to listening and counsel. He is judgemental, temperamental,and unconventional, someone who defies established societal norms at will as a matter of right. He is emotionally volatile. He is too sensitive, and gets stuck even over trivial issues. Moon in the sign Cancer, placed opposite Venus accounts for his unpredictable mood-swings. On top of that, the intelligence-signifying Mercury is conjunct headless Ketu, and also placed adverse to Mars. This accounts for his restless mind, mindlessly chasing his make-believe fictional ideas. And the result is there for all to see. I wish he wakes up even now and tries to expand his vision; he will get back his lost happiness.
The writer is an astrologer, vastu consultant and spiritual counsellor. Write to him at G-5, Basement, Jungpura Extension, New Delhi 14 Tel: 9818037273/ 24310031
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