This proactive approach could provide women with the skills and confidence to fend off potential attackers, empowering them
The cauldron of public rage is boiling over in the aftermath of the rape and murder of a young resident doctor in Kolkata. It isn’t the first time that the nation is witnessing such gruesomeness, and it won’t be the last either unless something drastic happens at all levels — societal, legal and psychological.
It isn’t that there were no horrific instances of sexual assault on women before Nirbhaya. There were, but Nirbhaya’s case brought the issue of women’s safety (or the lack of it) front and centre, and it resulted in instituting legislation that offered women more protection and legal support. Stringent measures have been implemented, yet incidents keep happening across the country.
It nearly feels like no external force can stem this rot, and it is time for women to take their protection into their own hands, literally.In light of the above, I am wondering if it wouldn’t be more prudent and practical to arm our girls with self-defence tactics right from the beginning. Crimes against women have become so regular, that attention must now turn towards finding means to empower women in a way that will give them confidence and security in different realms of their professional and private lives. The violations can probably be attributed to a deep-rooted patriarchal mindset that has been the bane of women (not just in India), but fixing the blame on society or its vagaries does not help us fight critical issues such as this. It’s worse when women themselves are held responsible for the abuses they are subjected to.
If society wants to pin the responsibility of safety on women, then there must be an action plan to arm women with the necessary armament.
In simple words, why not make martial arts and other self-defence lessons compulsory in the school curriculum? If there can be a sports or PT period, there can be a martial arts period too. The very idea of equipping our girls with the skills to fend off troublemakers makes me jubilant and offers hope that no legislation can offer. Widespread condemnation and demand for punitive action cannot pre-empt future instances.
What can curb it is the general knowledge among errant men that the woman they have cornered is capable of packing a punch, a chop or a kick that will neutralise them. Martial arts has been an optional activity for girls in an urban setting, but only when it is introduced as a part of the curriculum from primary grades in every school and they must be genuinely emancipated from the dangers that lurk at every corner of their daily lives.
It is encouraging to learn that the government is intent on its aim to ensure the safety of women in the country and hand out the severest punishment to perpetrators, but these are steps taken post-incident. What is suggested in this piece is a plan to provide a pre-emptive measure, a way to forestall violent attacks against women by their defences. It can deter a good majority of men on the loose with vagrant ideas.
Parents who are better informed enrol their daughters in self-defence programmes, but they are few and far between. The real difference will be seen only when every school-going child is taught the techniques to ward off an offender by dint of their physical prowess.
If our women can win medals in the boxing and wrestling rings, if they can build enough brawns along with brains in school, if every man who casts a salacious glance on a woman remembers that his prospective victim is not a push-over, then there will be change. Let us empower our girls with the spunk to keep the marauders at bay.
(The author is a columnist, author and writing coach based in Dubai; views are personal)