All planetary bodies in the immediate galaxy, vital to our life cycle, have been doing their rounds unabated with the sun in the centre. Following their respective trajectories, they all move at their exclusive speeds, making available the particular energy streams. Simultaneously, they also maintain relativity amongst themselves, as if they would be a family. So, while each of them enjoys independent space discharging one’s exclusive assignment, simultaneously, they also remain true to their collective obligations by serving in togetherness the callings of the life cycle in a giving mode. These planetary bodies have been conducting themselves in an orderly fashion since time immemorial. For, they have been strictly following the predefined design parameters as scripted by nature that drives them, and with no scope for making any exception.
The human life cycle, too, is modelled in the same fashion, set into an interdependent mechanism. For, each one of us is born imperfect and thereby incapable of being able to meet existential needs exclusively by oneself. That necessitates working in support of each other to make up for our respective voids, and in togetherness we meet up our existential needs. But unlike the planetary world above, human beings have been granted with the power of freewill as well, which qualifies them to guide their actions by choice and discrimination. Accordingly, they are empowered to define their own path, of course applicable within the overall frame of the design parameters underlying our existence. The implication is that whereas we are within our right to pursue our aspirational urges, we need to be equally conscious about putting in our share towards our collective obligations. For, even individual well-being would be secure only when the family and the society as a whole remains in good shape. But remember, if choice comes into play, it is subject to both its use and misuse.
Truth, however, remains that desire and ego driven human beings, often get tempted to passionately pursue their individualistic dream destination and even their whims and fancies, in a demanding mode. In the process, the sensibilities and concerns of those around often get compromised, and with obvious consequences. Here, it is pertinent to note that each one of us is inherently born unique, reflecting varying desire trends, habits and attitudes. That makes us vulnerable to work at cross purposes. Imagine a situation when all of us begin conducting in a demanding mode, passionately pursuing self-centric urges. Nothing but chaos has to be the outcome. Of late, this trend seems to be gaining ground in the society fast and with obvious consequences.
Truth of the matter is that if on one hand elders in the family are not prepared to lose their command, the youngsters would combat to secure their own independent space. The wife will not hesitate in throwing emotional tantrums for fulfillment of her desires, and the feudalistic husband will demand unquestioned compliance. Nobody is prepared to relent. The sense of accommodation is becoming a distant dream. No wonder, the number of family break-ups has been of late on the rise.
The other day a feuding couple came seeking guidance on how to restore peace and harmony in their marital life. After listening to their woes, and analysing their charts, what I gathered was that the two were trying to live on their exclusive terms in a demanding mode, not appreciating each other’s sensibilities and emotional concerns. They better begin serving each other ignoring a few negatives, and life will turn into a beautiful experience. But that would not be happening unless they identified, acknowledged, and worked upon their habitual tendencies.
look at the coincidences in their astrological pointers. Mars being ill-disposed to saturn and jupiter in both the charts account for their inflated ego, and also make them irritable, impatient, intolerant, and suspicious by nature. Moon crosses path with saturn, which brings in negative tendencies as well as an inbuilt sense of insecurity, and also makes them habitually grudging and grumbling type.
The sun and mercury placed opposite uranus makes the man eccentric, opinionated, unconventional, tactless, self-willed. In the lady’s case, neptune being placed adverse to the sun and mercury, makes her stuck to self-delusion, and also accounts for her impaired reasoning and judgment. What further vitiates the domestic atmosphere is their anger, as would moon placed adverse to mars mean. The good thing is that both of them have been trying to follow the advice in right earnest and have already started bridging the gap.
The writer is an astrologer, vastu consultant and spiritual counsellor. Write to him at G-5, Basement, Jungpura Extension, New Delhi 14 Tel: 9818037273/ 24310031 Email: pioneerqueries@bharatastro.com Website: www.bharatastro.com
